Monday, February 27, 2012

Baby Expensive

atau bahasa melayunya bayi mahal.

semalam, setelah lama tak berjumpa gynea, kami pun amik keputusan utk pegi ke gynea. check up. takut jugak kalo kene marah sbb lama sgt tak datang. mak mmg dah marah pun. kul 5ptg singgah clinic register, kul 8.30mlm datang balik, ade lagik 9org, so makan dlu la.

masuk jumpe gynea around kul 11. well seperti biasa. 

alhamdullillah, baby sihat. cuma kali ni, baby taknak tunjuk muka. sombong ngn mummy.

tali pusat baby terbelit dekat leher. ok aku dah cuak, tp doctor kate takpe, 7bulan baru, die bole pusing2 lagik. lebey 2-3 kali aku tanya doc betul ke ok, bermasalah ke tak. tp die kate takpe. urmm, dr masitah mmg selalu camtu.

tak puas sgt tgk baby sbb die langsung tanak tunjuk muka. 

lepas ultrasound, sembang2 dgn doc pasal nk deliver kat mana. fyi, dr masitah attached dekat KPJ selangor (shah alam nun sana tu, in which, tak mungkin la, takkan nkberanak kat dalam kete?), tropicana medical centre, pusat perubatan kohilal, pusat perubatan seri gombak ngn satu lagik lupe.

since shah alam dah out of list, doc kate, u nk deliver kat tropicana ke? i tak suggest u pegi sana sbb sana quite expensive. normal delivery pun around 5k. sakit beranak die sama je kalo u pegi tempat lain. ok, seriously aku ngn hubby terdiam. tho mmg kami tak consider tropicana pun, sbb mcm jauh dan jam dari gombak ni nk menghala ke sana kan.

doc suggestkan kohilal. dekat ngn rumah, dan tak expensive sgt. normal delivery dlm 2k, ceaser br dalam 5K. + GL uia mmg bole pakai pun kan. 

doc kate lagik, terpulang kat u, tp kalo u tanya i, i akan suggest kohilal, sbb tropicana is too expensive. sakit dia sama je. dan kohilal dekat dgn rumah u. 

bila aku tanya pasal gombak medical centre, die kata, die prefer kohilal sbb kebersihan terjaga. meaning, die bagi placenta yg dah siap basuh dan berbalut lagik. dan the nurses are more friendly. dan sekalik lagik die tekankan, facility yg sama, cuma jauh lebey murah. okkkk

bile die tgk kami (aku sebenarnya) sedikit reluctant, sbb kalo bole aku nk hospital, bukan pusat perubatan, die bukak cerita pasal patient die yg beranak di kohilal. 

dan dia kata lagik, "ur baby is expensive" sambil senyum.

aku pandang muka husband, husband pandang muka aku, then kami sama2 pandang muka dia. ???

sambil senyum dia kata, u conceived after the surgery, then while pregnant, u suffer from various complications, jadi, i suggestkan, u deliver je kat kohilal. no need to go to other places which is much more expensive. the facility is just the same, and the pain surely the same. baik u guna duit tu utk barang2 baby.

ooookkkk.

mahal ke baby kami? sedikit kami tak terfikir.

then tanya lagik, 

kalo di kohilal, sape yg akan sambut?
-dont worry, die yg akan sambut dan akan buat yg terbaik. and since she knows my history, insyallah semuanya akan berjalan lancar.  maksudnya, dia akan datang ke kohilal la.

mcm mana kalo ceaser?
-kalo boleh normal, kita normal. jgn risau.

tp saya ada asma?
-we shall take prevention. (then i remembered before the surgery, tho i tak kene attack, they still give me neb. ok, thats what they said the prevention)

mcm mana saya nk tau sy nk beranak?
- when i said so. (dan aku macam ???) maksudnya, bile dah 32weeks, kene datang jumpa dia every week dan dia akan check bukaan. kalo dah terbuka, dia akan kata sila warded, dan jgn degil. walaupun tak sakit. terus warded.

tp kalo air ketuban tak pecah lagik?
- u ni banyak sgt tengok drama melayu kan? (oppps. takde la, mane ade doc. i tgk house ngn grey's anatomy :P) biasanya yg pecah air ketuban tu, gynea dia tak regularly check. (ok, skalik lagik aku garu pala) when u reach 32weeks, gynea akan monitor bukaan dan kedudukan baby, insyallah bole predict bila nk beranak.

but my cousin, ketuban die pecah kat rumah?
- she did not have regularly check ups with her gynea. sbb jarang sangat ade org pecah ketuban dekat rumah. sbb biasanya during check ups, gynea can predict the edd. ataupun, ade complications.

is it possible to have pre-mature labour?
- doa, jgn mintak. sbb kecik sgt. the lungs are not fully developed. doa banyak2 mintak dekat Allah supaya at least 36weeks baru deliver.

tali pusat terbelit dekat leher yg 2 kali tadik tu, wont it affect the baby?
- insyallah tak ada apa, sbb if u see the ultrasound, tak terjerut, baru terbelit. insyallah bole terbukak sendrik.

if not? bole deliver normal?
- before delivery, kita akan scan. kalo tak bole, then go for ceaser, but kita akan cuba utk normal.

sakit yg terasa dekat ari2 ni. cramp di ari2, wont if affect my delivery?
- tak. sbb sakit nk deliver tak sama dgn sakit sekarang. u have to understand, u have retroverted uterus, and during previous surgery, i lifted the uterus back to normal position, and 6 month later, u are pregnant. now the baby is growing, it is pressing against the uterus, compressing the lifted uterus which caused all the pain. (mind u, the pain is soo strong that i am walking like a penguin. member siap kate, penguin lagik cantik kot jalan). doa, mintak kurang sakit. dan cara nk hilangkan sakit, buat squatting. 11times per day is enough. (mlm tadik try, sekalik nk bangun pun seksa. hohho)

on da way balik, berdiscuss dgn husband. ok sbaner i have bad experience with kohilal's nurses, thats y im a lil bit skeptical when the gynea propose to us to deliver at kohilal. hubby dgn selamba kata, u nk nurse kohilal tp doc masitah, atau u nak nurse ampang puteri tp doctor u tak kenal sape?

of course i nak my own doctor kan.

so, decision has been made. we shall deliver our lil khalifah at pusat perubatan kohilal.. esok akan ke IIUM Health Centre utk uruskan GL.

doakan semuanya akan berjalan lancar.

insyallah
amin

8 comments:

  1. oh Mrs A....
    harap2 betul la kata Dr tu.. baby saya pu;ak terlalu aktif, last week songsang, this week dah pusing kepala ke bawah, next week melintang kepala ke kanan perut pulak.. Dr pun risau hal yang sama, terlalu aktif baby boleh terbelit tali pusatnya ke leher... uhuhuhu..

    eh, squatting start sekarang eh? sebab asyik baca bila dah menjelang kelahiran je baru buat... nak buat juga nih..

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  2. my gynea kate takpe, sbb baru 7bulan, ade lagik 2bulan utk die berpusing2. jangan risau. cuma dia ada kata, kalo dah dekat2 deliver, kalo terbelit jugak, mmg kene ceaser. tp since br 7bulan, tak perlu risau lagik.

    aah. die suh buat dari skang. squatting is good utk kuatkan muscle. camtu la katanya

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  3. ala, KPJ dkt nye dgn rumah aku! kalau ko branak situ tetiba, aku lah org first melawat ko. ahahaha!
    takpe mane yg terbaik doc suggest tu, ikut je la kan.
    EH, ko dah tgk TTC group fb? ko baca what happened to Reen weh! same mcm ko ectopic dulu just that her condition is worst, isk..ko bace lah :( kesian dia! :((((

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  4. hahaha. jauh gile weh ngn aku kot kpj tu. tak sanggup!

    eh aku tak perasan pun? aku br je lepas bukak Dream Mother SUpport Group, takde cite pasal reen pun?

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  5. hi S~ (sorry i dont know ur name..hehe) just been reading thru ur blog since i baru bace ur comment on mines :) didn't know dr marsita is attached with kpj selangor..hurm. but yep..i live in wangsa maju..n its a bit too jauh. please share ur experience ye once u deliver at kohilal tu. would love to know more about the place. i still havent decided on where to deliver lagi. pening nk fikir. huhu.

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  6. sure, nnti lepas deliver i share ok. doakan sumanya

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  7. dear, u know what my air ketuban pecah kat rumah =) hehe ohh, and uhmmm my experience kt kohilal ok sbnrnya, eventho at first i didnt wanna go there but dr kinda memujuk beriya n she kept mentioning bout cost. i nak g tropicana. =) tp agaknya dh ketentuan tuhan kot, bersalin gak kt kohilal. the nurses are terbaik, esp d old ones. insyaAllah... goodluck to u!

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