Wednesday, July 10, 2013

To Vax or NOT To Vax?




its up to you parents.

seriously.






im not a pro-vac nor anti-vax. im still searching, still learning, still thinking and thinking and thinking. so please, dont judge me for this post.

kalo perasan kat belah kanan blog ni, ada vac schedule utk hamza. yes, aku amik semua kecuali MMR. in which dah lama aku risau tang MMR ni. lepas tu aku didedahkan dgn satu group dekat FB. informative group. well-versed about vac. oh ya, this is the group which many have refer to when they said about FB group which influence others not to vac their child.

honestly, aku tak nampak pun group ni influence others not to vac their child. it is more or less a support group for those who reject vac as they have child with AEFI. (go google) serius aku tak nampak mereke menghasut sesiapa. in fact, this group bukak mata aku tentang vaccine.

like, seriously an eye opener.

ok, let me ask you.
1) why do you take ur child to clinic and vax them?
2) do u really know what vac are being given and why?


biar aku jawab sendri soalan aku.

1. aku bawak hamza ke klinik dan vac die sebab, nurse kate kene bawak. eh, bukan semua budak ke kene vac? eh bukan wajib ke?

2. honestly, i dont know. yg aku tau, bawak hamza pegi clinic. cucuk. crossing fingers hoping he wont get fever (yg mana alhamdulillah, mmg hamza tak pernah demam setiap kali balik cucuk)

----> tetttttt. salah! nampak tak betapa ignorancenya aku sebagai seorg ibu? sbb semua org bawak anak pegi cucuk, so aku selamba bawak anak pegi cucuk. sbb org suruh bawak. sbb mak suruh. sbb nurse suruh. ok, sedikit bodoh di situ kerana tidak educate diri sndrik.

see my points? nampak tak ignorance di situ. so bagi aku, seriously group itu tidak influence mahu mengajak org lain tidak menvac anak mereka. tp membuka mata sebenarnya tentang vac.

but again, its ur choice. u parents.

anak adalah kain putih, terpulang utk kita mencorakkannya.

there are no right nor wrong.

If you vac your child, for you fear they will get infected, you are a good mother.
If you don't vac your child, for you fear the AEFI, you are a good mother.

either way, you are a good mother.
don't let others judge you.

well, at least, i do think like that. others, im not to sure.

but yeah, do educate yourselves. dont just simply follows others.




6 comments:

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    1. mmr tu yg sethn punye cucuk. mumps, measles and rubella if im not mistaken.

      risau sbb belah husband ada history AEFI, autism.

      lagikpun, bukan wajib amik pada usia 1thn, kite bole mintak tangguh dlu. so skang i tangguh dlu n seek more knowledge.

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  2. aku sangat stuju dgn post ko. yang tak vax, takyah judge org yang vax maybe sbb diorg taktahu, tapi mungkin ajak diorg untuk educate diri sendri psl vax tu ok la, tapi it seems like bile ko dah ter-vax anak ko time ko tattau ape bahayanye, mesti ko mcm bengang bile org nak educate2 ko pulak kan. some end-up continue findingout about vax-which is good, some end-up "Ah, dah slamat cucuk, takde ape2pun? betul ke ape yg org ckp kat fb tu? ah malas aa nak bace."-->kalau yg camni, dah takleh wat ape la kan.
    Yang vax pulak takyah judge orang yg TAKNAK vax. bagi aku ini diibarat, ko makan kfc. ko tau kfc tu tak elok. tapi ko kutuk org yg takmakan kfc, like diorg tu bodoh takmakan bende yg sedap sesedap kfc, rugi gile tak makan kfc. patot kite ckp org tu bagus sbb pilih utk tak makan bende yg tak elok wpun sedap, tapi kite nak makan kfc gak sukeati kite la perot kite kan, cume kite jgn la ckp org tu bodoh takmakan kfc. EH sedapnye ckp psl kfc bulan2 puase ni!! hahahahah :P

    -aku lepaskan hepB and bcg je kat Fahim. sebab...sebab...sebab aku menci nak gadoh dgn nurse/doc. -_-

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    1. hahaha. bagus tul contoh ko tu. kfc.

      tp tu la pasal, aku pelik tul org bising2 pasal org tanak vac anak derang. sekati derang la. bukan derang ajak ko tanak vac pun.

      bukan derang ugut ke paksa ke. cuma bukak mata kita je. tu je. duhh

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  3. love this entry...
    memang tengah blur either mo vac atau x ank yg ke-2 nanti....ank yg 1st memang full vac disebabkan kurangnya pengetahuan aku bab2 vac ni...mcm pn ckp, bawa ank bab kena suruh...tp masa ank 1st, sebelum vac memang aku ank tnya mcm2...fungsi, effect & mcm2...inshaAllah ank ke-2 ni klu vac in akan tnya lg...klu ble catat detail vac skali...no siri, nama vac, tarikh luput, tarikh amik, nurse yg cucuk...so klu da apa2...ble refer balik...

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    1. aha, itu la. tak kesah pun nk vac ke tak. itu choice kite sebagai parents kan. tp bagus kalo semua parents sedar hak kita utk tanya itu ini. bukan selamba datang serah peha anak, hah cucuk la anak saya, saya redha (hahahah. itu aku sbaner sbb tatau mende, ikut je kene cucuk, cucuk lah)

      dan utk parents yg choose to vac, mmg perlu catat details, no siri, nama vac, tarikh luput, etc etc. aku setuju bab tu

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