Friday, July 19, 2013

Just Stop

** ini entry minggu lepas, aku tak siap luahkan perasaan lagik, tp aku rasa terpanggil gak nk publish. eh, blog aku, sukati aku la! ahhahahah. 

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come on mommies, stop comparing.

it doesn't really matter whether your child is fully breastfeedor he drinks formula.
it doesn't matter whether your become a SAHM just to take care of your babies or that you sent them to nursery as you have to work.
it doesn't really matter whether you feed your child organics food or simply normal food.
it doesn't really matter whether you vac your child or you dont.

it doesn't matter.

and why is that?

because you are a mother.
whom loves their child unconditionally.

so your child if fully breastfeed?
so your child is formula feed?
so your become a SAHM?
so you sent your child to nursery?
so you feed your child organics?
so you feed your child drive tru?
so you vac your child?
so you dont vac your child?

so what?

i mean, come on. stop comparing.

either way, you are a good mother.

learn to accept that people are not the same.

so you got to breastfed your child, thats good.
i dont.
and i dont need people keep on reminding me that im a bad mother for feeding my child formulas. how i wish i coud bf hamza
things happened for a reasons. only He knows why. so please, do not rub it in my face.

so your child are fully bf child.
so what?
does it mean that your child are better than mine?
who are you to judge that? tuhan? duh!

come on mommies, stop comparing the children. let them be. let us be.

aku tak mintak utk tidak menyusukan hamza. aku regret sgt2. 
so please, do not rub it in my face.

tak semua ibu bagi susu formula itu ibu yg jahat atau ibu yg pentingkan diri sndrik.
kau untung sbb murah susu. 
jadi kau siapa utk pertikaikan untung rugi orang lain?


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*eh, belum abis lagik meluahkan perasaan sbaner, nnti aku update lain. bz sgt skang nih.






4 comments:

  1. Insyallah kalau ade rezki dpt adik hamza, ko boleh bf adik hamza pulak, aku doakan. aku pun taksuke parents2 yg suke compare2. Yang penting ko didik anak ko jd anak yg berguna..
    aku penah wonder satu bende ni, seseorang anak yg berguna utk makbapak tu bukannye terletak pada die kene vax ke tak, atau die bf ke tak..kan?
    kalau pun die fully vax, fully bf whatever, dah besar kite nak die jadi anak yg soleh dan doakan kite, tu je..kalau kite nak buat yg the best, kite buat. tapi kalau xdpt, kite takyah compare2..anak ko dah besar pun dok ade lg yg compare2 dgn ko ke? adoi..

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    1. nsyallah.

      kann. bukan vac, bf yg menentukan anak tu besar jadik ape. tp tahla, org suke sgt judging.

      hahaha, biasa la jay, org takkan stop sampai bile2. aku je kot yg sentap sikit bile org kutuk2 org yg bagi formula.

      sbb ramai bena yg tekejut aku kata aku tak bf hamza.

      ok, ikhlas, aku sikit terkecil hati ngn segelintir org OHUB. duh, dah derang untung murah susu. aku tau la susu ibu paling bagus utk anak, tp tak perlu nk menggambarkan org bagi formula mcm kami ni ibu yg bodoh tak sayang anak langsung. tapi tak semua ok. tp kalo ko baca comment2 tu kekadang sikit mengguris hati ibu2 formula ni.

      yela, jgn samakan semua org, senang kata, jgn judge org lain. untung rugi org mana kau tahu. sekarang kau untung anak kau fully bf, anak kau lepas ni mana kau tahu.

      aku rasa tak salah kot kalo ade je org yg stop bf anak sbb sedang pregnant anak lagik satu. bagi aku, itu tak salah sbb anak dlm perut pun perlu khasiat jugak (again, lain org lain pendapat). so kalo ibu mengandung tu bagi formula kat anak dia, itu isu ka? tak kan. jgn samakan kau dgn org lain. (eh, aku tak pregnant lagik ye skang. ahah)

      ahahahha, aku nk je tulis cenggitu, tp tak sampai hati plak. so aku menulis dekat blog aku je.

      takde la. aku sbaner pelik. mmg, memang susu ibu susu terbaik dalam dunia, tp kau siapa nk hakimi org lain kan.

      eh, kau dlm comment ini bukan merujuk kepada kau ye jay farhana. hehehe

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    2. hehe faham2
      aku pun penah bace kdg2 kat KIM pun ade gak ngate psl fm ni..aku faham smua nak smangat bf. tapi yelah bile aku bace ayat2 gitu aku mesti teringat ko yg takleh nak bf, aku slalu pikir kalau aku pun takleh bf mesti aku pun kecik ati..tapi xpelah ko tanam azam kalau ade rezki 2nd baby kene mindset awal2 ko nak bf insyallah ade rezki..yg penting usaha dari awal. yg ibu mengandung tu even hana pun takleh nak bf dah mase pgnant 2nd baby tu sbb contraction..ala dah dpt lebih 6bln bf anak pun dah kire ok kan..no point judge org sbb badan smua org xsama..kalau smua same takde la org yg prob nak bf, kompem smua pompuan boleh bf je kan..ramai je weh opismate aku pun ade kes mcm ko, mmg xde susu lansung xtau lah kenapa..tapi 2nd baby die dpt bf dgn cemerlang..so jgn risau, setiap anak tu ada rezeki masing2 :) kalau terlalu bangga dgn kebolehan bf nnt sok tuhan uji cara lain, mane kita tau. ko mgkin xleh nak bf tapi sok hamza jd anak yg soleh, berbakti kat parents die, ape ade kaitan dgn susu ape yg die minum kan..

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    3. kannn.

      itu maksud aku. ye la, kekadang org2 ni excited terlebey sampai lupe yg ada org tak semurah rezeki cam die.

      takpe, insyallah, adik hamza aku mmg nk bf. aku pun pelik napenye tak kuar susu, puas dah perah pam bagai.

      tp, redha je la. dah itu Dia tentukan.

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